Power Thoughts

Insights and stories for parents on the journey

Gayatri Vathsan

What Stigma? And Why?

“My son has stopped responding to his name. He has stopped looking me in the eye. I think he’s autistic. But I’m afraid to take him for a diagnosis.” “But why? …

19 April 2025Read more →
Gayatri Vathsan

When Words Fade, Communication Must Not

“Krishna, what do birds eat?” “Pija!” replied 2-year-old Krishna, who was eating pizza at the time. “You're eating pizza, baby, and you're not a bird. What's yo…

16 April 2025Read more →
Gayatri Vathsan

What After Us?

“”After us, then what?” This question popped up in my mind for the nth time yesterday morning, just about this time. I was frantically cleaning the sofa while K…

13 April 2025Read more →
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Courage

“Let me tell you a story of courage. A story of love.” Yesterday, I was waiting for Krishna to finish his therapy. A blue electric auto purred to a stop next to…

9 April 2025Read more →
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A Day in My Life

“So, what’s for breakfast?” For me, this is the scariest question possible on a Monday morning. Especially when my delightful maid decides to take off for a few…

6 April 2025Read more →
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You Are Not Alone in This

Autism parenting seems a lonely journey. Autism seems a lonely journey. It needn’t be. Krishna’s first regression happened when he was about 4. “That’s not typi…

3 April 2025Read more →
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When a Child Cannot Speak, We Must

Children are society’s most vulnerable. And autistic children? Even more than “most.” A few nights ago, a friend shared a video. A horrible incident. In it, a s…

1 April 2025Read more →
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The Taste of Hope

“Krishna, big, black eye!” And Krishna burst into peals of laughter. My cheek was against his and I peered into his eye. His comically huge, shiny, black side e…

30 March 2025Read more →
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Trust Your Gut (About Your Child)

“I’ve seen many autistic children, but none like Krishna! Please admit him for 2 weeks in a psychiatric hospital.” When Krishna’s neurologist said this, she saw…

24 March 2025Read more →
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The Language of Love

Does love need a spoken language? The gaze holding yours with such power that your soul is laid bare… The scent of that little head, sweet despite hair tangled …

20 March 2025Read more →
Gayatri Vathsan

The Weight of Guilt

Let me tell you a story about parenting guilt. “Krishna, say bye to me. I'm going to the hospital. I'll be back by evening.” Krishna was hiding under his comfor…

18 March 2025Read more →
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Grace

“Little one, won’t you smile for me?” Her eyes twinkled, and her smile held more warmth than the summer night outside. Her hands held Krishna’s firmly, but gent…

13 March 2025Read more →